Question & Answer About Old Age Sex
Question
I'm 72 years old. My wife thinks I'm too old to be thinking of sex. Is this true?No name / No state.
Answer
Sexual health is an important part of the lives of many older adults. As people live longer, healthier lives, they often want to continue an active sex life. Age, by itself, doesn't preclude this.
Different individuals have different levels of sexual desire as they age. Chronic illness often decreases sexual desire. But it often doesn't make it disappear completely. Healthy and active individuals often enjoy a rich and fulfilling sex life well into their 70s and 80s.
Despite a desire by many people to continue an active sex life, some factors can impair sexual function. As adults age, the level of sex hormones often changes. This is particularly important for the hormone testosterone. Men don't go through menopause, as women do. But testosterone does decrease gradually in all men and women. Women have a small amount of testosterone in their bodies, which often is important for sexual desire and function. This decrease in testosterone probably accounts for some loss of desire in both sexes.
Some medications, such as those used for depression and high blood pressure, also can decrease sexual desire or ability. Other factors that may decrease sexual desire or function include chronic medical problems such as diabetes or cardiovascular disease. The lack of opportunity for sexual activity through death or illness of a spouse also can decrease sexual desire and sexual activity.
Sexual activity is an important and often fulfilling aspect of life for older adults. Although many people believe sexual function should end at a certain age, it doesn't have to. When differences arise in expectations of sexual function, it's important to talk with your spouse or significant other. Communication is an important part of sexuality and close relationships. Be sensitive to the views and feelings of your partner.
By MayoClinic.com
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sex/AN00304
