Let's Talk
For any couple, communication is key to a healthy sex life. Unfortunately, shame and fear keep many women from speaking up. Partners need to talk about their sexual needs when they are both relaxed—not when they're under pressure. Discuss sexual issues outside of the bedroom, and stress the positives.
Dr. Hutcherson Recommends
To get what you want in bed, speak up!
You can't expect your partner to intuitively know what gives you pleasure. Be specific in describing what feels good and what you'd like to try.
Why not read a sexy book or watch an erotic video together? According to Dr. Hutcherson, it might ease communication and you might run across some new ideas to try together!
By Dr. Hutcherson
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